mardi 5 février 2013

J+166 Chinese New Year 过年

Chinese follow the lunar calendar. The most important event in the year is the spring festival: celebration starts on the New Year's day. The day is celebrated on the first day of the first month of the Chinese calendar, the day of the second new moon following the day of the winter solstice. The festivities end with the Lantern Festival on the fifteenth day of that month. ... I don't know how clear that is to you; I admit it took me a while to understand!

The festival's origin goes back thousands of years ago. There are many legends and traditions linked to it. The most famous legend is the "Nian monster" 年兽 legend. It is said, people used to believe the beast would devour people on New Year's Eve. To scare the monster away, people pasted red coloured couplets, on their front doors, and walls, lit red torches and burst loud firecrackers throughout the night.
 
 

New Year's Eve customary family reunion dinners are held where family members from near and far try to join in the dinner celebrations. Try and imagine the MESS in train stations, airports.... Picture the whole European Union population migrating at the same time..
On the New Year day gifts are exchanged among the family. The fifteenth day marks the Lantern Festival where people carry red lanterns and participate in the lantern parade. I am quite lucky to be in Nanjing, we have one of the most beautiful places for the lantern parade I was told: our Confucius temple (my favourite place in Nanjing)
I will take many photos and videos.
On the New Year's Day, I have offered my help at my fathers restaurant because they really really could use a hand. He happily accepted it! So I shall celebrate with my sister, parents, brother and the staff. (My aunt is going back to her countryside hometown in 2 days) .
We all have bought new clothes. It is a tradition here. My Chinese mother likes my dress and heels very much! I shall wear the new outfit on New Year's Day.

lundi 4 février 2013

J+165 My (Chinese) mother's birthday



Today was my mother's 45th birthday.
I was told this at 9pm.. After having had breakfast with her this morning.
Yes I felt slightly uncomfortable ! My sister said birthdays don't mean a great deal in their family.
I ran out to buy a cake, we took it to the restaurant.
My mother said "who's birthday is it?"
She... She didn't know today was HER BIRTHDAY!
It was a wonderful surprise, and we spent a great family moment.
When it comes to the cake... It looks better than it tastes if you are wondering !!